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GAW:

Tutors are paid for the time they put in. Re: plumber it depends if the results are getting engaged, or getting quality dates. The goal of all in involved is getting engaged-of course. HOWEVER the shadchans role is to get quality dates. Do think they are the ribbono shel olam is simply unrealistic. Thus they should be compensated for achieving the result that is their role.

It obvious to everyone in the CR that MY agenda is NOT the shadchanim per se. I have been on the close the age gap bandwagon for a long time which is geared to helping the singles NOT the shadchanim.

In the time I’ve spent on the issues it has become very clear to me, that the issue of compensation for shadchanim is flatly unjust, and changing it would help many many singles.