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I would not have a problem paying a shaddchan for their efforts even if it doesn’t work out in the end. I think it’s kind of like leaving a tip, you get better service the next time. However if you require it you’re going to keep some people from using your services which is a disservice to your “customers”. If you do charge, who would have to pay, both sides or the side that breaks it off?