Lets be honest. Each of us have a particular shortcoming that we wrestle with that is against halacha.(kaas, loshon horoh, things like that, and even things that can’t be mentioned out loud).
The difference is, we KNOW its wrong and eventualy do teshuva, and hopefuly overcome (to the extent humanly possible) our personal no-nos.
Toeva advocates are seeking acceptance and that is wrong. We all have a dark side (business, personal) but we fight it tooth and nail. Thats how we earn schar… not by saying “accept me as I am”.
Hashem demands more from us!