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December 13, 2009 5:09 am at 5:09 am
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oomis
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What is wrong is a) too MANY prizes are being given out fore extremely inconsequential things, so the impact of receiving a prize is greatly blunted b)the impact of oral praise is being lessened as a result. “Wonderful job!” is a powerful statement. So is “I am SO proud of you!” Not everyone is going to reward a person in a tangible way throughout life, and it is a good lesson to learn early on.