Azi, someone I know ( a relative) just made a wedding on the quick because the kallah’s father was very sick with cancer. The entire community pitched in to help make it happen.
People are always looking for reasons to hate Orthodox Jews because they make the irreligious feel guilty just by their existence. We shouldn’t give people ammunition with senseless acts of violence, but the good is quite easily there. If you wipe the dirt and self-loathing off your glasses you will be able to see the good as well.