Jphone you write:
“There is, I believe, a 3rd option. Kick some boys off the island.”
Island (in my terminology) refers to people trying to date whether or not they are getting dates.
If (and to me it’s obvious that this is the case) the problem is not having enough men on the island relative to the number of women; Please explain how by kicking some boys off the island would help.
It seems like you are from the chevra who don’t believe that age gap is creating the inequity of numbers problem…….