Mayan Davash- Please explain yourself better.
why would it be inefficient? Just do like jphone said- call me back within 2 days to let me know if it sounds like a good prospect. You do your preliminary search then. Once you call the shadchan back, both sides do their full research. Dont let the girl wait around for the boys to compare her to everyone they met. No double-timing (going with two girls at once). Get a name and do one at a time from start to finish. What is so hard about the guys telling the shadchan “I am in the middle of something now, if it doesnt work I will get back to you”. Girls are not peices of property to buy that you need to compare prices and quality to other items. No comparison shopping.