Oh please. Guys (and girls) remember that in the yeshivish circles, the boy and girl don’t really know anything about each other (which is a separate thread in and of itself) before they go out, and most girls didn’t have any contact with older boys when they themselves were older. From what I hear, the girl just doesn’t call the boy anything. You don’t have to call him by name for the first few dates. Once it gets a little more serious maybe. But for the first few dates, I definitely agree that it is a little inappropriate to be on “first-name basis”.
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