because they are not as tight as jeans
Who says jeans have to be tight? Thats a ridiculous statement. Do people wear tight jeans? Yes. Do people wear loose fitting jeans? Yes.
It doesn’t define your essence, it just defines on how you want to be seen.
Most of the time its true – sometimes however, you don’t realize the situation you walk into looks down on something (here, jeans), so you arent defining how you want to be seen.