NY MOM: you hit the nail on the head
Litvishe have a age gap problem Chasidishe do not. It’s about time the world started gettig this….
In truth the chasidim have a slight reverse problem (more boys in the dating pool than girls) which is why the boys have difficulty although nowhere near the problems the Litvishe girlshave…..
THIS is the reasong why the Litvishe boys can be picky, demand money, looks, yichis etc etc AND get away with it.
If we as a community want to change these factors then CLOSE THE AGE GAP. The boys will no longer have the mighty upper hand they have now and things will be where they should be…