Jothar: EVERY controversial topic will offend those looking to be offended. The need to get at the truth requires us to put our personal feelings aside and analyze the issue dispassionately.
Please re-read my above post. I never said don’t debate controversial subjects. I said that “there is a difference between debating a controversial topic and delegitimizing someone’s way of life”. You sound like a highly intelligent person and can therefore see a difference between these two things.
Also, if you had read previous posts by myself and others, you will see that someone’s intentions do make a difference. If one’s intent is to have an open and honest discussion, that is one thing. But when people perceive one’s intent is only to offend, then not much is being accomplished as far as dispassionate discussion and getting at the truth!