I am simply shocked at this continuous attack on oomis. From reading the lengthy posts here, it is clear that
1) oomis follows a family minhag
2) she has clarified with her rav several times that what she is doing is mutar
3) she has a complete understanding of the halacha
and yet other posters here seem determined that she is somehow “confused” and “mistaken”! Her psak may not be mainstream, but it is a valid psak nonetheless. Let’s move on, please.