Mod: I’ll let you answer the question yourself. With approx 2000 more older single girls than guys where is there baserts?
Last time I checked the concept that everyone married their “bahsert” is not in the Rambam’s 13 principles of faith. The Arizal writes it only applies for boys who get married by 18.
People can have wonderful marriages and raise wonderful families even when they don’t marry their “bashert”. Truth be told “basherte” is not a practically relevant concept since no one will or can ever know whether they are married to their bashert or not.
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