Azoiis, what about the money for every young man who is leaving kollel after several years having to NOW get extensive training, after which he’ll start at entry level, and who has 3 or 4 kids and is starting to face tuition, and whose wife, who was told become an xyz because then you’ll be able to work part time, is now either
– not able to find part time work
– unable to switch to part time because they need the money, as much as
– unable to work due to high risk pregnancy
– finding taking care of a special needs child a full time job
– fill in the blanks.
These guys feel frustrated, and deeply feel, because this is how Hashem wired them, a failure for not being able to take care of their families properly. But no one told them they ever would have to.