Reply To: Shidduchim and Commitment

gavra_at_work: If you say what starts with an “N” and ends with an “O”, when support is demanded, your sem daughter will respond with- Why did you send me to Bais Yaakov, you should have sent me to Shulamis….YOU made the mistake, I just want to be “good”……….

In most cases, you can’t take a typical good Bais Yaakov (or similar) girl and match her with a working boy, she won’t want him (not aidel enough), he wont want her (too aidel).

Once we’ve cranked out the product, it’s way too late to modify it.