I invite you to read all the posts on that previous topic. That will give you a glimpse into my anger.
This just all turned into a perfect lob for AZ quite quickly. Shame we moved away from the fact that people’s actions might be preventing them from getting married (and how can we fix this) into this flavor of the month.
Why must any discussion about difficulties in shidduchim be turned into “the ONLY issue is the age gap”
OP had nothing to do with gap, it had all to do with maturity, being realistic, and showing one cares. Where on earth does age gap come into play.