Hi,
I dont want to burst your bubble or anything but I always thought that the whole dont trust your friends didnt mean anything. Until…
My sister is still in shidduchim and my best friend is still not married. (I’m a year older than my sister) Anyways, a couple of people were calling my parents and telling them to check their references cuz somethings a little funny. After a bunch of these calls, my parents got a relative to pretend she was a mother of a boy and she called all my sisters references. Turns out it was my best friend. She wasnt even saying bad stuff- she was just not saying good.
Anyways, huge shock for me and definitely a big lesson. There’s no one you can trust out there in shidduchim… 2 much jealousy even if the actual person doesnt realize it. This was my BEST friend- we did everything together…