Reply To: Can An Avel Listen To Music On Lag Baomer?

Belev echad, YMMV. A dear friend lost her mother shortly before her chasuna and all her siblings attended the chasuna (and ate at a table outside the main room) but go so many different answers depending on whom they asked. One brother shaved, another didn’t e.g. I don’t remember about dancing. There were factors such as the need to be mesameiach the kallah, and be there for the elder widowed father who’s heart was breaking enough.