Reply To: Smoking and Shiduchim Home › Forums › Shidduchim › Smoking and Shiduchim › Reply To: Smoking and Shiduchim May 8, 2009 1:41 am at 1:41 am #645275 kapustaParticipant lkwdfellow, thats why its better to find your own references. (maybe a neighbor, co-worker, guy in the same yeshiva…) You can avoid problems like this. *kapusta*