Reply To: Smoking and Shiduchim Home › Forums › Shidduchim › Smoking and Shiduchim › Reply To: Smoking and Shiduchim May 4, 2009 2:08 am at 2:08 am #645188 kapustaParticipant When someone is checking out a boy/girl wouldn’t they ask if there are any medical problems in the family as one of the first questions? Now why would you then date a guy who has a potentially life threatening medical problem waiting to happen? *kapusta*