At the beginning of this thread there were opinions regarding school, it’s obligations to molding our children and the role of family.
An odom godol said that the home is the ikur place of chinuch, the school is the supplement.
I think parents need to have more self confidence in their abilities to be the ones to be truly mechanech their children and not be so incredibly reliant on the school to do the educating and parenting. The schools and yeshivos have their place, but ultimately it is the parents who must take resposibility to how they are mechanech their children.
That means parents have an achrayus to how they guide their children in their spare time-boys and girls.