very nice. i even understand that a little bit. but you can’t expect a person to be HAPPY. they point in the whipping is supposed to be so that you CRY. not so that you smile and say thank you.
that’s like saying you’re supposed to be happy when someone dies. your argument would be “but they’re in a better place” and “they fulfilled their tafkid in this world.” yeah yeah yeah. so they are now happy. we are supposed to be in mourning.