GOSH!! These stories sound like out of books. In our more Yeshivishe circles we dont do the hands and knees type of thing. It’s prearranged through the Shadchan that the couple is ready to get engaged, the boy takes the girl out and the typical is to go to the water or somewhere peaceful and private, the boy says a Dvar Torah about marriage or such etc… drink l’chaim, and go home to the official L’chaim. Very beautiful beginning in my opinion. No one is called to be on site to take pictures or switch cars etc. its a private thing, the couple is embarking on a new life…
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