JayMatt19 – I want to learn an extra hour every night can also be translated as I want to learn an extra hour every night but needs arise and I cannot as I need to prioritise such as work to support my family.
With the right hashkofo a person can learn anywhere and grow spiritually anywhere and whilst in an ideal world it may wonderful to learn in Eretz Yisroel children need to understand that this is not always possible.
Furthermore I never said anything about girls going with the flow.