yeah that’s exactly what i’m saying. we see it all the time. a wonderful girl marries a great guys who’s a top learner… a few years down the line the guy has to go out to work cuz he’s under pressure from his wife’s needs. you don’t wanna be responsible for that, do you? when your husband goes to work you don’t want to feel any guilt on your part.
it bothers me so much when my brothers mention that “so-and-so” is an awesome chavrusa and i know how his wife spends her time shopping and eating out with friends. makes me sick.