RY- i agree you have to be open and act normal. I had suggested to keep her involved. That still does not take away the fact that an ayin harah can occur. There’s two sides to the coin here.
squeak- why does the person that doesn’t have children need to go for help? Do you go for therapy every time something painful happens? The friend with the good news can be the person to help her through her hard time- by being sensitive, understanding, involved. Being extremely sensitive (not pity) & being involved does not have to contradict each other.