Oomis, I didn’t mean to belittle her ideas, I was just trying to point out a flaw in her logic and suggest she talk to her Rav. Was it something specific that made it out to be belittling her or was it the general tone?
NO, NO, NO, SJS, I was defending YOU!!! I felt that your idea had been belittled. You misunderstood, and I am sorry about that. Obviously I was unclear.