One more thing… for all those of you that want to see ppl married so you give advice like keep going out or ignore your feelings its not a good reason… you may be the cause of the divorce crisis. I’m sorry to say it, but sometimes Hashem sends us msgs that “no this is not for you” and of course we have to go to Daas Torah, but sometimes it’s cold feet and other times its really not. Be mechabed that and help the person figure out. Dont just unvalidate their feelings altogether.
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I will admit, sometimes, the person does need a good kick in the pants to go thru with it but be sensitive and understanding that dating is a confusing time for many and you need to clarify if there is an anxiety.