lammed hey,
You are 100% right on your point that he is a boy and I am a girl!!!
Taavos are SO different. Of course girls can have taavas. But boys way more! It’s natural and nothing to argue about. Even if everyone has a natural taava, I think for girls it needs to be triggered and even once triggered for boys it’s way more intense.
I never had a taava before I was married and can say the same for all my friends!