Reply To: Kosher Hangouts

muchcommonsense- even though we know something is wrong we still have our weaknesses. currently almost all my friends are girls, and i look for love and attention through them, but i do ahve a couple of good guys who i do talk to once in a while. while it might not be right, i still do it. and if you knew where i was coming from, jsut talking to a couple of yeshiva guys is pretty good for me. maybe love shouldnt come from boyfriends, but if thats where i am able to get it from I will take it

Sjinnyc- yea that would be great, you sound like u get it. im not yeshivish either so dont worry

intellegent- thank you for your comment. also I am not lloking for help through this blog, I started this discussion so we can help others not me.

s- you might have a wonderful marriage, but do you know whats going in the frum world and especcaily the chasidishe world, let me familiarize you with a site called tefilindate.blogspot.com, i am not reccomending you go to the site, its basically frum porn and while i do not look at porn and the concept bothers me it depicts very well whats going on in our communities, first of all you have the problem when you are forbidding the opposite gender people become attracted to their gender, i have seen it, it happens in the mikvas, everywhere. I know the guy who runs the site, and the emails he gets from people looking to be set up to ahve affairs, its all true. and very sad. i know you are all going to get upset by thi, but i wouldnt make it up.

charlie brown- i ahve tried with project yes and rabbi horowitz told me that before i should work on becoming frum i ahve to deal with the abuse, that is more important. I have a profesional but it takes a lot of time to get over what has happened and is continuing to happen. my parents dont know what happened, they know things have but not sure what, but they pay for therapy. its very hard to keep going but I am trying. thank you for the reminder, i realize the internet is dangerous but i am going to post a new email address and be cery careful what I reveal to anyone.

shisho- brooklyn isnt the only place in the worls, and we need more than ohr naava