asdfghjkl, For starters, we did a lot of information beforehand. Also, we knew the family very well. We met a couple of times, and since this was not the first boy I met (far from it, having met oter boys more times than i met my husband), when I met my husband even for the first time, it was very refreshing. We spoke for hours each time, and then how many times do you need? I didnt feel that needed even one more date. We couldve met more times, but whatever for?
It’s a matter of taking dating seriously or meeting for fun. In my circles we take dating very very seriously. Starting from extensive information about Middos etc. through serious talks….