Salsa, do not ever (and I cannot emphasize this more strongly) EVER feel like you are a nebach case??? How can you think this of yourself? Because some shadchan is a) too busy b) too disorganized, or c) too rude to get back to you, don’t see it as a failing in yourself. The shadchan may be working on something for you or someone else, which is taking his/her attention off you for the moment It is possible they simply have had no chance to go over your information and see if they know someone suitable. Personally, I see no problem with respectfully leaving a non-whiney message for them. I would e-mail first, and say something along the lines of wanting to say thank you for their time and effort, that you can appreciate how very busy they must be, and you are wondering what would be the best time to speak with them. If that doesn’t work, move on to another shadchan. There is such a thing as a shadchan who really is not right for you, even if he/she was right for someone else. Believe me, I know. Hatzlacha rabba to you.
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