in other words, gawker, like anything else, it can be used for the good or for the bad, and we have to be careful and use it in a safe and proper way, i think that is basically your point, yes.
i find that to be a very logical and reasonable approach.
however you and i are fools, and the Yetzer has us almost completely in the dark. what do the Gedolim, those who see and understand, the ones who see the maze from up above, what do they say about this matter?