lol i’m too lazy when i type, but you’re right, feivel
JFem02 – let’s see. what’s more important? blessing a yid with a child (which is definitely important!) or preventing a yid from sinning? tough choice.
mind you, i have more than one rav that i consult. some for personal issues and yes, i go to a posek (and great Gadol)for halachic matters. don’t EVER hold back on consulting a rav. any rav, small-time or not will agree with me on this.
sounds like you’re idea of Gedolim is to milk them for all they’ve got and throw out their wisdom.
please, i’d love for you to disprove me on that. the stage is all yours.