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Dear Mr. Wannabe shadchan,
I’m not sure who your redding shidduchim to but everyone I know returns all their calls and always make sure to thank each and every shadchan myself included.
But to all the other shadchanim out there, heads up.
When you tell a girl/boy’s parent that you have the PERFECT shidduch for them and send over the resume asap….what happens after! Where is the follow up???
Do you all know how excited you make people by saying oh yea i know so and so…
So many girls tell me how frustrating it is when shadchanim act like they can solve all your problems, but then they never call back, or even acknowledge, that they recieved the resume. NOTHING!
Then girls think there is c’vs something wrong with them when the shadchanim prbly just forget that they ever promised anything.
So please all shadchanim out there, it’s not our fault, there’s a major shidduch crisis going on, don’t make it any harder for all the girls that are struggling.
Thank you!