No, tb, I’m not saying that. Yes, many people don’t like their jobs, and they do it because they need the income. However, they realize why they’re doing it. They aren’t told that they have to do it or they’re throwing their life away, they choose to do it on their own.
Bochurim today in most yeshivas are taught that if they don’t sit and learn in kollel, they’re doing something wrong. They are pressured to go to kollel whether they’re cut out for it or not. They don’t get to think for themselves, and decide what they want.