Reply To: Broke Bochurim Going to Friend’s Weddings

So the bochrim expect to be paid to do the mitzvah of being m’sameach chasson and kallah? I’ve never heard of such a thing. Should the kallah’s parents be expected to pay for gas for everyone who comes to a wedding? Bochrim could pool their money and travel together. But I think it’s rediculous to ask for a family that’s already paying for a chassunah and perhaps x years of support to pay for guests to come to a wedding.