outoftowner: although i feel for all these girls who have a hard time,
however i also feel for the boys who have the same problem.
Let me give you my take on this.
When i was dating i was looking
for a slim girl. I was absolutely not attracted to overweight
or even full girls. try as i may, i never found these girls
even remotely attractive.
You can’t expect people to ignore their obvious strong dislike to something,
or else we’ll have even a bigger Shidduch crises on our hands!!!
There is a long term health issue with overweight girls, & boys.
The following is the way i see it with overweight ppl,
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If even when their dating & trying to impress their potential mate
1)being young & in their prime
2)knowing the hardships in Shiduchim w/ being overweight,
3)knowing the long term health risks of being overweight,
4)having time on their hands to diet, & exercise & not having to run a home,
they still can’t manage to lose the weight,
How do you expect them to ever lose the weight?
And is this person, who is not attracted to this girl,
supposed to marry her & suffer that, & potential health risks?????!!!!!
SERIOUSLY! I hope your spouse is overweight, cuz if not what
even gives you the right to suggest this approach
if you yourself wouldn’t do it?
Sorry for the tone, but what you expect is ridiculous!
i apologize if i offended any overweight people,
with my post, but this is the reality.