postsemgirl,
I suppose that you are referring to the fact that everyone thinks that they are middle of the road. That is human nature.
SJSinNYC,
I hope you didn’t think I was referring specifically to you. I was just saying something that I noticed in general. No need to defend yourself.
You say that it would be nice if the more “machmir” side would say, “That is the more lenient opinion, I hold by the more stringent”. It would also be nice if the more “lenient” side would say that maybe they are wrong and life is all about moving up. Of course maybe their more “lenient” opinion is within the boundaries of Halacha but maybe not. Instead of attacking maybe think that you are wrong just as you would like to think that the more machmir person may be wrong.
Again, this is not referring specifically to you. I did not have any specific posts in mind.