Think Big,
Perhaps, dare I suggest, the Sefer being “controversial” is one of the reasons that the Rabbonim in Lakewood feel that there is a tznius problem in Lakewood “ihr hakodesh”?
I do agree with you that a big part of the problem is with the men allowing, if not actually encouraging, their wives to wear pruste clothes.
Why must girls follow “styles”? Whats wrong with the style from 5 years ago (or whatever your favorite number of years is — more or less)? That attitude frankly IS part of the problem.