SJSinNYC
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So if its just something people do to “follow the crowd” or blend in, why is it such a big deal if someone wears a “colored” shirt? My cousin asked me that about every guy I ever set her up with (or tried to) and she wouldnt date a guy who wore a colored shirt. I still dont understand the significance.
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I am not sure if there is a major significance in the black & white thing but your cousin probably wants to marry a certain type of guy. Chances are the type of guy she wants to marry would not wear colored shirts. By wearing this “dress code” you are sort of wearing like a club t-shirt. It doesn’t mean that it is required or there is anything wrong with wearing a blue shirt. So in essence it’s not really the color clothes your cousin cares about but the group the guy belongs to which is sort of expressed by the clothing. How that came about to begin with is an other story. So it’s not such an outward trivial thing really. I hope this makes sense to you.