To the original poster: I am happy for you, but in some out of town communities, we don’t have in town options, and the overwhelming number of girls go to E”Y. I can try to change things, but it may not happen soon enough for me.
I know, I know, there’s always just say no but #1, believe me, we say no to quite a lot as it is, and #2 you can only say no if you have a good option to say yes to.