tvt – nice job at cleanup. Your lomdus seems correct to me, but I think one point needs to be clairified. Every woman who is not an ervah falls into davar sheyesh lo matirin. (By ervah I am not including nidah, b/c that also has matirin.) Therefore, one should be careful about his interactions with every such woman. The problem that is specific to a Kallah is the fact that he is SUPPOSED to have a relationship with his Kallah, and he does NOT need to have a relationship with any other penuyah (and therefore SHOULD NOT). So there is clearly a fine line as to what parts of a relationship are appropriate and what are not. What should they share and what should they not. You may think that complimenting each other is something they should not share, that it crosses this line, but I don’t think it is so clear cut.
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