to nameless..the biggest tzadikim of al generations had and have this minhuk and they call it minhuk koidesh so you dont even have to be meharer on it…now we think, maybe wrong dont mean to hack,on not chasidishe helige teire yidden..but by not chasidishe when the kalleh comes in, in middle with chason by men side and chasens friends are there is also not so pashute oisgehaltan,and the mechites parts ..and you get the rest…on the other hand mitzvah tantz is usually when guests went home and only close fam. stays..some are makpid to send unmarried bocherim home… also the chassidishe are more makpid during wedding b’noigayah tarivous in hall ,smorg,etc..than the not chassidishe. now we are not sayng this as hocking on them, but if we consider what this letter write mentions about the rosh hayeshivas ..we think its fair to say that its more oigehalten the mitzvah tantz then the minhuk of bringing kalleh with chasen in middle..now some will come ‘the gemmorah sais ‘katzad merakdin lifnaei hakaleh..’ keyuboth 17a etc, etc the chassidishe also know of this gemm.but who sais it means the unmarried bacharim..very few can say ‘dome ulaei kekeshirah..’ again please everybody we are not saying this out of hate , narrow minded…so the question is not ‘what the litvishe , washington heights, lubabitch teiereh yidden ,have against the mitzvah tantz but ….see above
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