What's the parsha after shidduchim?

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  • January 8, 2017 1:37 am at 1:37 am #618973
    Lightbrite
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    I hear people talk about being “in the parsha” when their in shidduchim and in the process of dating and marriage.

    What’s the next parsha?

    Shana rishonah?

    And then children?

    Or what if the couple doesn’t have children together?

    Or what if they have children from a previous marriage, while “in the parsha”?

    What was the parsha before shidduchim?

    Thanks!

    January 8, 2017 1:41 am at 1:41 am #1207807
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    *they’re

    January 8, 2017 1:43 am at 1:43 am #1207808
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    For some people, it’s V’zos Hab’rachah.

    For others, it’s Sh’lach.

    January 8, 2017 1:59 am at 1:59 am #1207809
    reuventree555
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    It’s obvious. It’s ???? ???!!

    January 8, 2017 2:13 am at 2:13 am #1207810
    Lightbrite
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    Thanks DY +1 & Thanks RT555 +1

    Explanations would be appreciated 🙂

    January 8, 2017 10:05 pm at 10:05 pm #1207811
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
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    DY – lol.

    RT- I think that’s before marriage. (If you meant “Acharei Mos Kedoshim Emor”)

    LB – All three are names of Parshios. “V’zos Habracha” means “and this is the Blessing”. “Shlach” means “Send”.

    “Acharei Mos” means after the death.

    Do you get it now?

    January 8, 2017 11:02 pm at 11:02 pm #1207812
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    Yes. I get it. At least I think…

    DY and reuventree555 must be married because they not only could not hold back from answering, but when they did, they used humor so their wives wouldn’t kill them for telling me the truth.

    (?)

    Thanks!

    January 8, 2017 11:23 pm at 11:23 pm #1207813
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
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    DY is married – don’t know about RT.

    DY’s comment is actually neutral or pro-marriage – some people have great marriages, and the rest get divorced. Sounds like he thinks that marriage is supposed to be great because if it’s not, you get divorced. 🙂

    RT’s is negative – maybe he’s single.

    January 9, 2017 2:14 am at 2:14 am #1207814
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    I wasn’t saying that their marriages were anything less than good.

    They were being modest in their words while saying a lot.

    RT could have meant that the next parsha comes after death because from marriage onward, the couple is one.

    Why would their wives kill them if they spoke the truth? What is the truth? I don’t know. That’s why I asked. Since they weren’t specific, I made up a reason why.

    Maybe their wives wouldn’t want them sharing all the mushy details of their marriage and saying what comes next because it’s not tznius. Or anything.

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