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October 11, 2016 3:48 pm at 3:48 pm #618507Little FroggieParticipant
Wow. Wouldn’t have imagined I’d be writing this.. some time ago…
But it’s time to forgive and move a step forward.. I hereby forgive EVERYONE (like in ‘EVERYONE’) whether unintentional or intentional, any pain, anguish, tzaar, distress, suffering, heartache or headache. Anything done here in the CR or anything out in the real world. Except for any monetary claims (how I wish!) EVEN if said individual intends to do it again. (WOW – I just said it) I mean it – with my full heart.
I full-heartedly let it go. WHEW!!!!
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(Ribono Shel Olam, please do likewise)
??? ????? ???? to ALL!! A gut, zees, gebentsht yahr!!
October 12, 2016 11:15 pm at 11:15 pm #1186335Lilmod UlelamaidParticipantLittle Froggie – I am most impressed! I can only hope to someday reach your madreigah.
October 13, 2016 3:45 am at 3:45 am #1186336Little FroggieParticipantThank you, LuL.
No madreigos here. If you only new the other ‘baggage’ I had… It’s a mere attempt at trying any way to tip those heavenly scales…
October 13, 2016 4:30 am at 4:30 am #1186337Lilmod UlelamaidParticipantI think it’s a really high level to forgive people who aren’t sorry and intend to do it again!! I’m totally not holding by that. I always have lots of kavana when I say those words in the Tefilas Zaka.
October 13, 2016 4:30 am at 4:30 am #1186338Lilmod UlelamaidParticipantor maybe I’m just on a very low level…
October 13, 2016 8:59 am at 8:59 am #1186339ChortkovParticipantThe ?????? ??”? in Kiddushin writes that if somebody is verbally ???? a friend for publicly embarrasing him, and in his heart he still has resentment and isn’t moichel, the mechila works, because ????? ???? ???? ?????.
So even if you’re not on the madreiga, just say it. Moichel. It works.
October 13, 2016 12:36 pm at 12:36 pm #1186340Little FroggieParticipantI did. And I said ?????? ?? ???? ?? ???? ??? ?????. (It’s not everyone’s fault I’m such a sensitive sourpuss)
Then I begged HaShem to do the same. Maybe, just maybe….???? ???? ???? ????
October 13, 2016 12:54 pm at 12:54 pm #1186341thebabblerMemberI find I can forgive anyone whose actions I am not currently suffering from. Even if they never asked to be forgiven. But how do you forgive those whose actions still affect you or your children?
October 13, 2016 1:08 pm at 1:08 pm #1186342Lilmod UlelamaidParticipantLittle Froggie – except that in your case, I am sure you really were sorry and did apologize to Hashem.
In any case, it is a tremendous zchus.
October 13, 2016 1:47 pm at 1:47 pm #1186343thebabblerMemberI must clarify: I have forgiven, to the best of my ability, those whose actions from years ago still affect me or my kids today. What is difficult is forgiving those whose CURRENT ACTIONS, OR CURRENT INACTION affect us significantly. Yes, they are messengers from Hashem, but that does not make them loveable:)
October 13, 2016 2:37 pm at 2:37 pm #1186344Little FroggieParticipantLuL, Thank you.
Eclipse (I can’t get myself to call you by your new name, perhaps you can still change it to your famed original one):
I know. (most of us oldies here do too!!) And HaShem certainly does. He doesn’t expect you to do so in the least. ??? ???”? ?? ??????? ?? ???????, something that’s not possible is not demanded. ???? ?? ??? ????? – that’s what we’re made of, and that’s what causes our feelings, emotions, moods. Someone under duress is in an entirely different picture.
Hope life takes a good, great, fantastic, favorable turn for you this year, if it hasn’t already!
Like we say: “a good acquittal” (kvital)
October 13, 2016 9:02 pm at 9:02 pm #1186346thebabblerMemberthank you so much
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