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  • #618219
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
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    What age range are you in: teens, 20-24, 25-29, 30’s, 40’s, 50’s, 60’s or other (please specify)?

    Are you male or female?

    Single or married?

    Chareidi or MO or other (please specify)?

    Note: you don’t have to answer all of the above questions if they are too personal. The main thing I was curious about was age, but then decided to stick in the other questions.

    #1170555
    gofish
    Member

    Here I go being reckless online by giving way tmi….

    20-30 range (sorry, don’t want to narrow it down <i>too</i> much.)

    Female

    Single

    While i don’t quite conform to one specific party line, I guess I’d say I’m rw mo (uh oh, now i’m a marked man on this forum) with a lot of breslov, chabad, and other paths inspiring my avodas Hashem.

    also, i’m a fish.

    #1170556
    Shopping613 🌠
    Participant

    Teens, female, single, charedi

    #1170557
    Sparkly
    Member

    gofish – whats rw modern?

    #1170558
    gofish
    Member

    Right wing Modern Orthodox.

    I do come from a BY (Bais Yaakov) background, and appearance wise look like a BY graduate. I’m talking hashkafa here.

    #1170559
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
    Participant

    Right wing modern – That means she keeps halacha (including being shomer negiah and covering her knees and wearing skirts), and isn’t looking to make changes in Judaism such as ordaining women, is into avodas Hashem and is machshiv Torah, but probably celebrates Yom HaAtzmaut and would learn from both Rav Soloveichik and Rav Moshe Feinstein. Am I right, gofish?

    #1170560
    Sparkly
    Member

    gofish – the type mo i am?

    #1170561
    Ex-CTLawyer
    Participant

    60s

    Male

    Married

    Old enough to predate the Chareidi or MO labels. OOT we were known as European Traditional. That meant, orthodox shul with Mechitza or balcony, kids went to day school then college and professional school with a year or two of post high school full time learning. Kosher homes (before the Glatt craze of the 70s using local butchers and bakeries). Married women covered their hair with wig or a hat outside the home. Shomer Shabbos.

    Today, I think we would be known as MO (although I don’t consider myself modern) because we are content to live in small town mixed communities and do business in the mixed world.

    In 140+ years this system has worked for our family in America

    #1170562
    gofish
    Member

    You got it, lilmod ulelamaid!

    Also different from chareidi is the approach to interaction with the world – the philosophy of Torah Umada- appreciating higher education, quality secular art and music (not the decadent sort), modern advances such as technology (internet, for example), reconciling Torah and science, etc.

    #1170563
    gofish
    Member

    Sparkly, I have no idea what kind of MO you are.

    The only thing I know in relation to you and MO that you seem to think that MO is “less” frum than chareidi, and that their halachic shittos are less legitimate. I don’t think that my path is less frum than chareidi, and for me, I am more frum with this approach than I would be if I was chareidi. The reason I chose this path was not to “get away with things”, but to have a truly authentic Judaism that resonates with me and enhances my avodas Hashem.

    #1170564
    iacisrmma
    Participant

    Nile age – between juvenile and senile.

    #1170565
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
    Participant

    Basically, the differences between RWMO and Chareidi can be subtle, and in some cases are more sociological than hashkafic, particularly in the US. In Israel, it gets more complicated since RWMO would probably be Dati Leumi which is a whole different world from Chareidi. In the US, they may attend the same schools and have the same Rabbanim and share the same hashkafos on issues that come up in the US, since Zionism is not particularly relevant when you don’t live in Israel.

    #1170566
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
    Participant

    CT Lawyer: “In 140+ years this system has worked for our family in America”

    Times change. Just as you did things very differently than your ancestors in Europe, the way you did things may not work for your descendants.

    It’s amazing that your family managed to hold on to their Yiddishkeit all these years!!

    I’m surprised about hair covering outside of the home. I thought that almost no one did that back then? Are you referring to your parents’ generation or yours?

    #1170567
    Person1
    Member

    20-30. Male. Single. I’m charedi but only socially. I believe in hashem and his torah and not in institutions.

    #1170568
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
    Participant

    Shopping – are you still in high school?

    #1170569
    Shopping613 🌠
    Participant

    lilmod, no. I’m going to seminary bezras Hashem. Many posters forget I’m the youngest here because I’ve just been here for so many years…

    🙂 It’s a good thing. People take me more seriously than a high schooler (or at least I hope they do)

    #1170570
    Sparkly
    Member

    lilmod ulelamaid – im pretty sure she said she just graduated.

    #1170571

    Teens -it’s almost my birthday I can’t wait to give u each personal brachos

    Single-ready to mingle

    I feel like the word female is very medical so im a girl (secretly a princess)

    And being that I seriously hate labeling myself and others my background is not chassidish my family is semi chassidish I live in chassidish place and i loooove it!!! Me personally? I label myself as someone who is trying to be so good and i fail alot of times but that doesn’t stop me from continuing in my ways of trying to please hashem in any way I can…..I do need to work harder though 🙁 that’s I’m making a new thread…stay tuned

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