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    lokshinkigel
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    Are there certain guidelines one is supposed to follow when dating regarding what type of venue to take a girl to on what # date and specific topics that should be talked about on certain dates?

    #1088249
    I. M. Shluffin
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    Yes.

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    ironpenguin
    Member

    Yes, there are many.

    Contact your local post-seminary girl for detailed instructions.

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    yehudayona
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    Be sure to write the topics on your sleeve so you can refer to it when you run out of things to say.

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    I. M. Shluffin
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    In fact, have a shadchan contact your local post-seminary girl for detailed instructions.

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    Excellence
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    I disagree. I think people make a big deal out of dating procedures. Better to be makpid for family purity, no tv, kashrus, hair covering, and long skirt.

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    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    I think it is one of the Protocols of the elders of zion. Ask for it at your local library

    #1088256
    Wisey
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    What about driving, bus/train, taxi, car service? Date number

    #1088257
    Excellence
    Participant

    Well, at least I gave a decent answer…

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    rew
    Member

    Just speak about LUKSHIN KIGGEL. Each date a different kind. There is Yerushalmi kiggel, sweet lukshin kiggel, lukshen cheese kiggel, salt & pepper kiggel………

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    qazwsxedcrfv
    Member

    Your wrong excellence it does make a difference to have the proper thing going on and no the family and what they are like is not it matters what the girl who you marry is like not the family

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    Excellence
    Participant

    Knowing the parents well is very important, yes. The Talmud is abundant with advice. And her personality can closely resemble her brother, maternal uncle or father. I think what I meant to say was where you date. Some communities make a big deal to go far away from observation, to have friends along, etc. what I meant was, just take her somewhere nice, who cares if you are seen out on a date. Bring some kosher lunchband talk what’s important to you.

    And oh yes – watch the parents well.

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