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July 6, 2014 8:09 am at 8:09 am #613141YW Moderator-42Moderator
This was from R’ Shay Schechter who is
the Assistant Rabbi at the White Shul
I honesty do not know where to start.
Driving to the airport on Wednesday
afternoon, I was filled with sadness and
incredibly broken spirits. I have
never been so sad to be visiting Eretz
Yisrael in my life.
I was feeling uncomfortable on so many
different levels; will my presence
be of any significance or meaning to
these most beloved families? Will they
just look at me as yet another
representative, from just another
passing through their grieving
home? Will I even have a chance to
explain where I come from, that I have
come to mourn with them, and convey
some of our collective thoughts and
feelings of their brothers and sisters in
America?
our heart to the Shaer, Frenkel and
Yifrach families respectively; so the
answer had to be to go, and to make the
very best of this most unfortunate
trip.
Getting stuck on the JFK runway for close
to two hours, I said to myself;
this special trip is starting off drastically
differently than I had
expected. I was meant to land at 12 PM in
Tel Aviv, go directly from the
airport to meet up with Rabbi Weinreb
from the OU, and visit the families;
and this plane delay would now throw off
the entire Israel arrangement.
But boy was I mistaken. This was a trip
that will be etched in my mind for
all posterity. It was the most inspiring and
uplifting trip I could have
ever made, and I simply have to share my
feelings with the tzibbur, who
felt the grave importance of sending a
shul representative.
In the middle of our flight, the stewardess
began to speak with me, and we
got into a very pleasant conversation.
She then inquired when I was
planning to return back to the States, and
I said I would only be staying
until until after Shabbos, and I would then
be returning home. She said
And I proceeded to tell her
that I was sent by our shul to visit the
three respective families, to
deliver our beautiful letters, and to let
them know that the affection of
their beloved brothers and sisters in
America, knows no bounds.
She immediately began to cry
uncontrollably, and said, this kehillah of
yours is something unique and something
incredibly special. For you to get
on the flight is no big deal; but this
speaks volumes about your kehillah,
that this is what they feel is important.
This is where their hearts are,
and this is what is occupying their minds
So the stewardess proceeds to make an
announcement in tears, to a plane
filled almost to capacity with Birthright
plane, a shliach Mitzvah! Come meet a
Rabbi who was sent by his Kehillah to
perform the great mitzvah of nichum
aveilim, for those whom they feel are
their own brothers and sisters! Our plane
is safe because we have a
This led to a whole pandemonium, and
after I finally got to sit down again,
the young man next to me informs me
that he is 26 years old, from Seattle
Washington; he works in a national zoo,
and is going to Israel for his
first time. He then proceeds to tell me
that he was so inspired by our
kehillah, and that he would like to borrow
my Tallis to do a mitzvah that
he has not done since his Bar mitzvah
celebration (at age 16) in memory of
the three precious neshamos.
I gladly gave him my tallis and then
proceeded to ask him if he knew how to
went on to take out a small piece
of paper from his pocket, and recited the
one and only Hebrew Bracha that he was
familiar with, so he decided to
recite it as well on the Tallis.
He then asked to borrow my Tefillin as
well, which was followed by a long
conversation with the other members of
the plane, who were all taking
pictures of this highly unusual scene.
for these three precious souls,
even after I return home. So what would
I was in complete shock, and
overwhelmed with emotion, so the
Satmar
Chassid in the next row turns to this
tattood and pierced young man and
will try and wear these Tefillin
each and every day, I promise I will have
a pair sent by FedEx to your home
in Seattle Washington by the time you
They then
exchanged phone numbers and
information, and the deal was done.
Now I ask you, is Klal Yisrael anything
short of amazing and absolutely
incredible? Look what our Kehillah alone
has already accomplished! I almost
felt like taking the next flight home, and
calling this trip the greatest
success I could have ever imagined!
July 6, 2014 8:10 am at 8:10 am #1022831YW Moderator-42Moderatorimagined! But things only continued to
became
more and more meaningful as the day
went on.
I landed in Eretz Yisrael over two hours
late, and had already missed two
out of the three homes that the OU was
planning to visit.
So I met them on the way to the Shaer
home which is located in Talmon, a
neighborhood of 280 families, which is
surrounded on all sides by Arab
Villages. We arrived there at 3:30, and
were told by the Policemen, that
the family was resting until 5:30. So the
OU van decided to leave, but I
chose to stay and wait it out.
So there I was, alone, in a far flung Yishuv
that I have never heard of,
drenched with sweat, with not a living
person in sight, in any direction.
I begin to walk around looking for a Beis
Midrash, and after about a
minute, a woman walks out of the Shaer
residence, and I sheepishly asked
States, but I live in Talmon for over 20
years. How can I help you?”
anything, as I had a last minute flight,
and they would not provide me with
food on the plane, and I am feeling very
into her home, quickly served me a
beautiful platter of fresh fruit; gave
me a tour of the local shul and mikvah,
acquainted me to the local shomrim
and Chayallim, and proceeded to
introduce me to many of the local
families
the other, families began to break
down crying, as they heard that a guest
had arrived from America to share
in their pain.
But I watched as these incredible
families, walked up and down the streets
with bottles of water, delicious cake
platters, freshly diced fruit, tuna
and egg sandwiches, and everything else
you can possibly imagine; offering
the crowd that was beginning to form
outside of the Shaer residence. Their
outpouring of love was quite
overwhelming to watch, and it is
something
that is so hard for me to properly express
in words.
Signs were posted by a table at the
entrance to the door, asking all
visitors to write down what services they
might be able to offer the family
in the coming months, and when they
would be available to render them. A
plumber wrote that he has off on
them should they ever need. A therapist
wrote that any day after hours they
could feel free to use her services. A
young teenage girl from Beit Shemesh
wrote that she has the summer off, and
would be happy to entertain anyone
in the Yishuv who was busy caring for the
the list went on and on and on.
Politicians began to gather and many
people could be seen waiting for the
school friends of Gilad began to
recount stories of his youthful
personality, but after just a few minutes,
Mr. and Mrs. Shaer asked that people
please make way for the Kehillah who
has sent someone all the way from
him; his visit means the most to us right
now; though we may be closer to
many of you sitting in the room.” I then
received the most warm, gracious,
gentle, and highly emotional embrace
from Mr. Shaer, who was completely
gesture.
The room grew silent and we began to
speak with one another; I then
proceeded to present the letters from our
shul, which threw the room into a
complete hysteria, and Mrs. Bat Galim
Shaer began to speak with me about
her feelings of love for our Kehillah.
Although there were numerous signs
posted, that no pictures be taken at the
shiva house, Bat Galim encouraged her
friends and relatives, to take
pictures and share them with both her
family and our Kehillah, so they
would remember, and that we would be
able to see how much this special
visit meant to them.
Surprisingly, she then proceeded to
personally address our wonderful shul
on video as well, and asked her friends to
share her personal message with
our shul via email before Shabbos; so we
could all appreciate the Shaer
and incredible sense of strength
that they felt by our gesture.
I then traveled to Nof Ayalon to visit the
Frankel family. I got to speak
very personally with both Mr. and Mrs.
Frankel, and they too were
overwhelmed with our sense of
connection and achrayus to Am Yisrael
and its
terrible tragedies.
only you who feel it for us, you
feel a connection to your shul. The
Torah that you teach in The White Shul, I
and listen to the shiurim on YUTorah, and
is, that one of my personal Rabeim has
come from abroad to share this
difficult time with me.”
Mrs. Frenkel then told me that when
Ambassador Dan Shapiro, came to speak
with her last week about the continued
mission to rescue her son, he said,
us.” To which she res
July 6, 2014 8:13 am at 8:13 am #1022832YW Moderator-42Moderatorponded,
American or Israeli. If all three are
not being equally emphasized, then I
want none of them back. Klal Yisrael
Being more familiar with America and the
spent time reading the package of letters
that were presented, and found
many of them to be incredibly
heartwarming.
Elad. A complete mob scene, I
was brought directly to meet with Mr.
Yifrach who stood up in the overly
crowded tent, and tightly hugged, kissed
and cried on my shoulder. He asked
that our Shul consider joining their family
when they make their next
Simcha, so we not only connect with this
special family under these
circumstances, and that we always
remember that life is usually, supposed
to be filled with, and revolve around
I was then brought to meet with Mrs.
Yifrach who was inside the house, and
she asked that I share her personal wish
with our shul. On Erev Shabbos, at
19:00 p.m. Israel Time, there will be close
to one million Jews around the
world, participating in a ??? ?? ???.
Throughout Eretz Yisrael and various
communities, people will be setting aside
sums of money for tzeddakah, in
the memory of the three precious
kedoshim, the three pure and untainted
souls. She begged that our Shul sincerely
commit to join this meaningful
campaign, and asked that when setting
aside these monies we recite ?????
???? ?????? ?? ??????.
She begged, that her beloved brothers
and sisters join with her as well
going forward, to make this worldwide
campaign of chessed, a most
successful and life changing one, in
memory of Naftali, Eyal and Gilad.
What more is possibly left to say other
than ?? ???? ????? on so many
incredibly beautiful levels? ?? ???? ?????,
who feel such a strong bond and
connection with one another. ?? ????
????? who stay committed and so
incredibly strong at times of utter and
complete devastation. ?? ???? ?????
who are willing to bat for one another at
any cost, and are so
overwhelmingly kind to those whom they
have never, and perhaps will never
meet! ?? ???? ????? who have families
most beloved Father in heaven
who is so deeply rooted in their
respective hearts, minds and souls. ??
???? ????? who will pledge to join
together to make our world a more
meaningful and wholesome place to be.
I say a personal thank you to the most
incredible Kehillah that I feel
blessed to be a part of, for your
abounding love and care for every single
last member of Klal Yisrael. Our Rabbi,
Rabbi Eytan Feiner has taught us
all in so many different ways, to
appreciate and value the contributions of
each and every member of our own
tzibbur and of Klal Yisrael in general.
This gesture was yet another incredible
display of how successful our Rav
from the most sensitive, most
loving, most caring, and most
compassionate Kehillah.
May Klal Yisrael know no more suffering,
and may the coming weeks and
months only bring ?????? ?????, ??????
??????, ????? ???? ??? ????? ??????
??? ????.
, ?????? ???? ??????? ???
Rabbi Shay Schachter”
July 9, 2014 3:32 am at 3:32 am #1022833SayIDidIt™ParticipantWow! This is amazing! Thanks 42 for posting!
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