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    chesedpro
    Member

    I am working on a project and need some input.

    Anyone in need of help or guidance with something and no organization that specializes in your need.

    Looking to help those that no one else can.

    #995019
    peacefull
    Member

    Some boys need help with homework or Chavrusa & Chazora

    #995020
    superme
    Member

    Honestly chesedpro all kidding aside I rly think there should be something even charge very cheap price or wtvr for people who are going through hard times and besides for emotionally drained there physically drained and there body really hurts them not just there heart but back and shoulders etc have knots in there backs….I honestly need One I can’t move anymore I walk around looking like I’m carrying 10 ibs on my shoulder I physically am unwell because of emotional stuff…do you I understand what I’m trying to get at??

    Please really take me seriously I’m not kidding I’m talking from a place/state of where I’m holding!

    Thank you!!

    #995021
    SaysMe
    Member

    superme- you should take care of it. Walk, swim, exercise. Go to a chiropractor, massage therapist, physiotherapist. Read dr sarno’s book.

    #995022
    superme
    Member

    Saysme swimming doesn’t help not even excersise and at this point I dnt hav the physical strength to do either one. Also what will a book help me?? Also I don’t hav hundreds of dollars chriopractor or massage therapy

    #995023
    fkelly
    Member

    I think you need to take care of your emotional weight first..

    #995024
    WIY
    Member

    Chesedpro

    I’m a little old lady that needs help crossing the street. Can you help me sweetie?

    #995025
    superme
    Member

    Fkelly emotional weight…it doesn’t make a difference if I do or not this helps in a doff way

    #995027
    OURtorah
    Participant

    superme- Before you read this, put your defense mechanism down. I am talking about that voice inside your head that is saying NOTHIGNG WILL WORK. You must try something, so here are some ideas:

    find yourself a mentor to speak with. Someone who may know you and you are comfertable opening yourself up to. This should unload the emotional burden on your shoulders. Next find a hobbie, whether it be going for a walk, playing piano, singing, listening to music. Something you can use when you get stressed as an escape and as a calming effect on you. I personally love playing piano. I teach myself songs and make up tunes or just play random keys. It is so important to find that escape. Finnaly start moving. Yes you probably feel like you cant move, but you can. Trust me, your body can do way more than you think it can. And if it is too hard, then do 5 minutes the first day. Then 6 the next and so on and so fourth.

    hatzlocha!! I hope this is helpful.

    #995028
    fkelly
    Member

    That’s true. But I was talking to you personally, the physical pain will be there (although it may leave temporarily) until you get rid of the stress causing it.

    #995029
    👑RebYidd23
    Participant

    I need “honored”, “honorable” or “His Excellency” added to my subtitle.

    #995031
    superme
    Member

    Ourtorah I used to do that and for some time it actully worked but now it doesn’t and I’m now in a lot of physical pain as well

    Fkelly I need to get rid of the physical pain alrdy

    #995032
    fkelly
    Member

    Temporarily? Massage, physical therapy, chiropractor… But that won’t fix the original issue.

    #995033
    superme
    Member

    I’m working on emotional stuff but I also rly need to feel physically better both go tog…..and yeh I know I need help from someone for the pain I don’t know who a massage, physical therapy, chiropractor bec not sure what each can do for me… I answered cheesed pro here bec she wanted to know what type of cheesed is needed and telling her this is needed for ppl who emotionally and physically are in pain — I wish someone would help me pay for it I wish then I would have been to one of those people a while a go but …

    #995034
    mra01385
    Participant

    chesedpro: If you really would like to create a new chesed organization, (I could try to help you if you’d like) you should create an organization where there are frum women hired to help out young mothers who are physically disabled or sick, take care of their children. I’m sure there are many many women out there (including myself)who have some kind of physical disability or sickness which makes it very difficult to take care of their young children without any or much help.

    As of now the only way for a young sick mother to receive childcare help is through getting family support, or paying a private nanny, Additionally, as a last resort if they have no family help, or can’t afford a private nanny, they can go through the government to get a free homemaker who is most of the time a non Jew. (edited slightly)

    #995035
    superme
    Member

    mra01385- there are such things alrdy

    sayasme- that’s how this whole topic started I told chesed pro there should be a person who idk does it for cheap or something

    #995036
    ovedhashem
    Member

    I and my family are in desperate need of chesed and we have tried numerous organizations but we always fall short of their criteria mainly because we live in a non heimishe area due to my wife’s illness and we are on the verge of being evicted very soon. I haven’t been able to work for the past two years as I need to look after my wife on a constant basis.

    Ideally I should work from home I am capable of working online. I speak a few languages fluently too.

    Our situation is steadily deteriorating to the extent that in the past few months at times there literally is no food or gas in the car to take my wife to the hospital etc.

    The constant financial stress has caused my wife to suffer a heart attack two weeks ago on top of her usual issues and I fear the worst could happen if I dont turn this situation around immediately

    Thanks for listening

    #995037
    superme
    Member

    call tomchei Shabbos and called ppl I cant help u or organize something to help u bec we cnt hav contact information but call someone pls do!

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